Found this amusing comment in one of our old posts and I just had to create a fresh post out of it. I could say that because I am blessed with parents who provided well for me. I was always hungry around him.
On some occasions, I would have been with him for a good part of the day and eaten next to nothing and then my mum would call me asking where I am and saying that she has made semo and okro for my lunch. If you see the the speed I use to leave him on those occasions eh!!! After a while, he got used to me paying. When I got fed up with the whole thing, I broke things off with him. This is someone who would eat a greater part of my pia wurtzbach dating when we go out and I get very hungry and get myself rice and chicken or swallow.
I prefer to eat well but I eat slowly. I resolved never to date a broke guy. Poverty wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't for the lack of finance. Boiz, here's to hoping that God provides money to fornicate.
Can I get an Amen.? Couldn't even make any sense with ur first statement. Many Broke guys ain't loyal jare. What's poverty in d context of the story and what's lack of finance? The write up is do true. Everything seems to be a chore. We argue over the smallest of things. Not worth it joor. Does it all make sense now. Totally not worth it I agree. He even got comfy with you paying for the taxis I have met so many girls that I thought were materialistic until I put things into perspective and I realised that a guy must at least provide some form of security financialy for his girlfriend in order to keep the fire of love burning I will never advice my sister under any circumstance date a broke ass cos poor people tend to argue over every other things trivial inclusive and always make their girlfriend suffer I love my sister that I won't allow her suffer because of any broke bastard especially lazy ones.
Dating a poor guy is not worth it, I agree, but is dating a rich really the ultimate? A guy that thinks you are after his money, a guy that after annoying you thinks he can throw his money around and that will be enough to appease you? My people, these things have their ups and downs.
Lets just pray for guidance in all we do. D writer isn't exactly going on about being rich but d main point is not being rich but at least being able to provide for your woman financially stable.
Your woman might be over 50s dating dan you but generally women like men that take charge it doesn't necessarily mean u have to be Dangote's son. Not all rich guys are like that, besides the guy doesn't have to be super rich. Comfortable enough to pick up the tabs will suffice.
It is a thing of choiceolrunshogo or Surulereit's your choice. Gold digging falls under the Olorunshogo category also free things come baggage. A patient dog eats the fattest bone falls under the Surulere category but what will the dog eat before the bone becomes available? Hopefully people will not get into or stay in an abusive relationship because of Money.
I prefer a lady to work hard for her own and be independent. You can survive with dildos until the right man comes.
That is just my two cents. Iran meta ko n toshi. Human beings change like waether. May God help us. Human beings change like weather. D lazy brokeazz irritate me badly. I know wen u dont have n makin effort nd wen u companion dating on ur dumb lazy ass expectin me to pay for everything. You for translate the last part of your comment now My take dating a broke guy life is that it's not worth it rich or poor.
If the guy shows that he values you when he is poor, dating a broke guy. Then it's worth going the journey. If they guy doesn't show you that he values you when he is poor when he is rich he will be worse. Money doesn't matter to me, dating a broke guy. But the mistake I thought was showing my loyalty during the poverty days the guy will be loyal.
Please I have learned not to let any thing pass me by. By not ignoring when they don't value u. If a guy value's your company, he will find the funds for food and transport.
And will always be a man about it, to impress you. I have learned to know my worth. I am worthily, for you attract what you got. Believe them when they show you who they are. Since there is a PASS given to men. Especially in an African society. Value yourself and you will attract value.
African men get away with a lot. Some during the poverty days will look for girls where their money can reach. When they hit jackpot you start seeing them with high class babes. C that Ice case Rich or poor get to know the guy. Does the person value you? BC no amount of poverty or riches can buy happiness or peace. My dear i agree wit u, dating a poor guy aint worth it, been free bi curious dating. Dey argue ova evrytin, dey're ova demandin, demand respect, loyalty evrytin.
Dey'll tell u dat if u luv dem den u'll nt b after d moni. Men a girl has needs. Nobody has asked d guy 2 give us heaven n earth, bt little tins count. D lazy ones are dose dat annoy me d most, he'll say d future is bright. If u cnt tk care of me nw, i wonda wat will happen wen i'm married 2 u.
Girl struggling wit a man is 1 tin bt nt wen d man is lazy. Dating a Broke guy ain't funny all. Dated one, gave him all d attention, love, care and even lent him money im sorry I can't give any guy ma money na only lend I fit do Anyway, things eventually didn't work out Btw us but we stl remained friends n he is well 2 do now but his stinginess no get part His friends warned me that he is stingy but I was blinded by love.
I'm jst happy we broke up wen he was stl poor or I 4 see am It all depends on how one sees things, as for moi if the guy is hardworking and seriously working towards coming out from his broke stage, den I can deal with it Don't marry or date a broke guy.
Look at their families and their situations before you get involved. I married a broke guy, his parents never owned a home, they mooched off other people their whole lives, staying with " friends" and maxing out credit cards.
Married him and it was nothing but problems. Wanted to buy a house-did he save? Asked me to ask my parents to help. Had high paying job, better than mine, but would always overspend by thousands evHe'd be in the pawn shop weekly or payday loan place. Borrowed money from all of of our friendswhich i dating a broke guy find out about until later. Basically no matter how much we made or what plans were put in place, he would always find a way to be broke.
Look at their families ladies! It's okay to be poor but if the guy you like exhibits a complete lack of money management and comes from a poor family that is poor because thy don't know how to sacrafice-your man will be the same.
All that happens is your net worth reduces, and hot families, and the broke guy stays in debt his whole life. Am already under the impression that none of this so called girls are from a poor ivy league dating website. Yea, dats what it implies. Because, in a family with 2boys and 3girls, crunched with poverty and lacking by all social standards, only the guys are expected to suffer from the debacle the family status has imposed on them ryt!!!
She wants the best for you because she sees you in her future. A girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man. But one thing remains: There are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely: Girls love each other and they want the best for each other. This is most annoying. A little amount of money will cause fight between you two. This is just a few of what I can remember now. I love my baby very much but as little as N can cause a misunderstanding between us.
God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially okay. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. That is why I use Dangote and Adenuga as examples: Is it as often as both men?
And in case the woman is as successful as the likes of Omotola Jalade and Ngozi Iweala, their man is as successful as them. What do you think? Share your thoughts below! Very funny but true. Dated a broke guy once. Sometimes when I come there I end spending my money to feed us.
The worst thing though is that the broke guy is also looking forward to being rich so that he can then leave you for a deserving babe. This generalisation is a bit wrong and you are contradicting yourself. You are so right. I personally believe its better to remain single than marry or date a broke guy.
Not because you are material but because you will become like him. Poverty is a mindset and it spreads. My dear God bless u. Am in that kind of relationship right now it not easy.
All thanks to my parents who gives me money. Me and my guy are having issue now. You what have you achieved for yourself? Dating a broke guy is not bad n most women can stay with them without complaining.
The only problem is dat dey are frustrated in every little thing. I personal agree with numbers 1and 2 even your siblings will disrespect him. Every relationship is unique: Some are ungrateful like that.
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I just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, and before you start complaining let me quickly tell you I'm actually dating one. There is one dating sin above all others. It is unforgiveable and punishable by hell fire to even begin dating a broke man. Young lady, dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Even if you are on a mission to hurt yourself, kindly stay away from broke and entitled guys.
Forster Young lady, dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Even if you are on a mission to hurt yourself, kindly stay away from broke and entitled guys. Your date is broke as a joke. Is that a dealbreaker? Can you see 'the guy' past the empty pockets? Admit it, ladies. You'd love to fly off on a private jet for a weekend in Paris with a handsome date who pays for that bottle of Dom with his platinum AMEX. But in this economy, it's much more likely.